Lessons from Twilight:
Edward: I will stalk you, manipulate you, physically abuse you, treat you like an incompetent child, and contemplate killing you regularly.
Bella: That's okay. I will just internalize your abuse as my fault. After all, you're a man so you must be right.
Lessons from Buffy:
Angel: Hey Buff, you need me to bust in and save you at the last minute?
Buffy: No, thanks. Let me just slice this misogynistic bastard in half, starting with his balls first. Then we can snuggle.